Feeling anxious or embarrassed when talking about sex with your partner is very common. Psychosexual therapy (previously called sex therapy), gives you a safe and open forum for doing this together.
As the body and mind are very closely connected, sexual difficulties are often caused or made worse by psychological factors, such as anxiety or stress.
I am experienced in treating sexual problems, and my training in Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy (MSc) at TR has enabled me to work in an open and reassuring way with a wide variety of sexual problems. I am a member of COSRT (College of Relationship and Sexual Therapy), and ATSAC (Association for the Treatment of Sexual Addiction and Compulsivity).
Psychosexual therapy is the same as relationship therapy, but with the added component of talking about sexual issues. We will work with the emotional aspects of your relationship, that could be adding to or maintaining the sexual problem, as well as thinking about the physical side. I will take a sexual history, and then I will tailor a treatment plan for you.
This may involve some tasks such as gentle touching exercises that are done in the privacy of your own home. This is known as the ‘Sensate’ programme. We will then talk about this in therapy, together with the relationship issues that may be contributing to the problem. Often just talking about these feelings with someone who is sympathetic, may really help. I will plan the exercises to suit you, as a unique couple, or individual, and we always work at a pace you are happy with.
Yes of course. Sometimes, clients like to work on a sexual issue they may have alone, to give them more confidence. There is no need to come with a partner. I work with clients from all sexual orientations, in a partnership, or single. For more information call me on 01732 838913. If I am not at home please leave a message, and I will get back to you as soon as I can.